By Dr. Tara Thurston
Department of Pediatrics
Few things are more dreaded than when your toddler throws a huge temper tantrum in front of the family during the holidays. It’s not only embarrassing, it can add a lot of stress to that special time of year you and your family want to enjoy. Unfortunately, tantrums are common around the holidays because changes in family routine coupled with reduced time with a parent can make young children feel emotionally overwhelmed and more prone to a meltdown.
Fortunately, there are steps you can take to prevent holiday tantrums from happening. The key is preparing your child for what’s ahead so they can deal with the stress and turmoil that the holidays can bring.
- Be sure to let your child know what to expect during the holidays. If traveling, how long will it take to get there? Which friends or relatives will be enjoying the holidays with the family? How long will they stay over?
- Showing pictures of past gatherings can help familiarize your child with family members they haven’t seen in a while and make them feel more at ease.
- On the morning of the holiday, go over the plan for the day and let your child know what you expect from them in terms of everything from table manners to snacking and when bedtime will be.
- If other children will be present, it’s a good idea to set the parameters in advance for how they will play and entertain themselves. Are video games permissible? Is it okay for the children to play outside?
Remember, the more your child knows what is expected, the better the chance that the holidays will go smoother for everyone involved. While all tantrums can’t be avoided, they can be reduced. And even one less tantrum can make a really big difference around the holidays!
About Tara Thurston, DO
Dr. Tara Thurston always knew she wanted to go into medicine. “When I was younger, I thought I’d be a vet after helping to deliver and raise the neighbor’s puppies,” she explains. “Later, I realized how much I like the human aspects of medicine – especially getting to know patients and their families.”
Dr. Thurston believes she made a great choice when she decided to specialize in pediatrics. “Kids can be so spirited...View profile View posts by this doctor